How To Keep A Boyfriend After a Fight

 Okay ladies or guys. So you've had a fight with your boyfriend right? And you want to stay with him, to fix things and remain happy with them? Well obviously, right? I am not going to say that I can fix your relationship but some common mistakes I have made you'll learn from anyone.

1.) You may want to just let him drop it.

Guys are waffles and girls are spaghetti. When a girl wants to sit and think about her feelings you jump from maybe one thought to a whole 100 new thoughts at once and that will only result in him getting angry. When you are fighting let him retreat from the problem.

2.) DO NOT put the blame on him.

I'm not saying take all of it either. That isn't fair to you either. Yet, a guy will close up and push you away. Just like a parent who doesn't want to listen to or agree with what you have to say. So let's fix the crying on your part before he does it. That gets no where.

3.) DO NOT give him an ultimateum.

Especially when it is over something stupid like his friends or whether or not you "do it." Personally if he is just your boyfriend then save yourself till your married. Abstience is the best way to advert that problem and don't perster him about his friends. He'll choose them more likely than not. So don't get upset if you do and he breaks it off.

4.) Figure out your feelings before you yell at him.

As I said before guys are waffles, meaning they only think on one subject at a time (Girls, cars, sex, anger, happiness, nothing, girls). So Don't get on his case if you talk about anger, and confusion, and the other million feelings we all have. You'll force him into that giant box marked NOTHING and he'll push you away.

5.) JUST SAY SORRY.

Sorry can be one of the most helpful words after a fight is if you just suck it up and apologize. Just bite your tongue and sheild your pride. If you take the blame then it fixes things. Do it creatively (e.i.: a dinner, a tape of his favorite game, karaoke...) and then if you both drop it you get to kiss and cuddle and enjoy it together.

6.) Don't hold it over his head.

You wouldn't want your mistakes held over your head so don't do it to him. It's not fair and that's a low blow. Just like guys have low blows in fighting, you girls don't use it. That just makes you lose your worth and respect. Other girls will be pissed and your boy may just very well say, "See ya."

7.) If he breaks it off, bow out gracefully.

Don't make a scene and beg him that you'll make a bunch of empty promises. You don't mean it and things will just heat up again. You don't need a guy that is calloused to dump ou over a fight unless you've cheated or did something really bad. If you did then you have to fix it by fixing the damage you did and the trust you broke. But over something small, like you kissed him on the cheek, then just go. Plenty of guys will want you and if they don't revel in the single life. It's as fun as you make it.