How to Keep a Girlfriend After a Huge Fight

 It always seems to happen, there you two are talking about random things and you don't even remember what you said. Yet, now she's mad at you and you two are fighting. Your friends don't see you two making up and but you want to stay with her. So what do you do?

Well, it's simple. Here are a few dos and don'ts. As a girl who's been in argumentative relationships you can trust that these are fool proof.

DO NOT, under any circumstance, say just a simple sorry. To most girls, we have heard it all before and "sorry," makes us feel like you don't even know what you did wrong.

DO NOT go putting the blame on her. Even if she's wrong don't go telling her it's her fault. You don't like being wrong but girls absolutely hate it.

DO NOT assume that if you avoid her for a couple days she'll forget about it. Girls can carry grudges and hold anger for months and even years. Don't you wonder why your mom still hates her highschool prom queen?

DO NOT assume if she doesn't say anything everything is all right.

DO ask her why she is mad.

DO try and apologize using, "I'm sorry baby for ___________. I do love you and didn't mean to do/say it." It makes her know you were concious of what you said or did and that you truly care that you hurt her.

DO explain to her your side. Which involves explaining what you meant, why you said it, and if she heard it wrong calmly explain to her what you said. Sometimes it was just her accidently hearing something wrong. I mean it happens alot of the time.

DO avoid using the phrase, "I think we just need to take a break from one another. To a girl, that phrase means, "I'm not man enough to handle the ups and downs of a relationship."

DO hold her into your chest when you explain it. That way you know she is paying attention. But don't hurt her.

DO talk calmly. Yelling only leads to more yelling.

DO respect her wishes if she asks you to stop. It means she is thinking about it.

If none of this helps and as a last resort then you may have to break up with her. It means she is just being thick headed with you and she knows you're right but she just wants a reason to break up with you. And if that's the case then just say good-bye and cut your losses. You are better off with a different girls.

But if this does help your case then here are two more dos.

1.) DO kiss her. It makes her feel like you are happy with the outcome.

2.) DO drop it. Don't hold this over her head. It isn't leverage for a different fight. It's the past and it shouldn't come back to haunt your guys' relationship.

Sincerely The Best Of Luck!

<3 ME