Men in Love = Vaunerability???
60Have you ever heard the phrase, "love makes people do crazy things?" Well then that should answer the question. Anyone in love are vaunerable, and though I hate to admit it, even men are.
When a women is in love she waits for him to notice, giving little hints, here and there. Wearing his favorite perfume, dragging a finger across his back as she walks by, stays after class to pack up or pack up early so she can be alone with him in the halls or the room.
So it is obvious women open themselves very much to be very vaunerable to a man. But what no one realizes is that men do the same.
They'll clean themselves up in hopes to impress. He'll bring her flowers or gifts. He'll open the door in hopes she'll notice and maybe stop to chat. He begins pining over her and it seems to just keep coming out like word vomit.
How do I know this? I am only a girl, right? Well yeah, but I got a unique and rare chance to look at how vaunerable a man in love can be.
My boyfriend had never opened up to a woman since his last love, Kara. He had loved her for three years. He pined away over her. Brought her gifts, flowers, opened doors for her, and did every other mushy thing out there just to get her to notice him for a brief moment then turn and date his best friend. Honestly, he was vaunerable to a broken heart. Yet, when he found me I was his true love and we have been happily together for one month noe going strong and not planning to end things anytime soon.
Yet, my best friend had a girlfriend where they were both crazy about one another. They spent every second of every day together and knew every thing from their eye colo to their great great great grandfather's uncle's cousin's sister's bestfriend's nephew's neice twice removed's brother in law's aunt's sister's birthday to the second.
Yet, as time moved on they seperated and when she finally broke up he was vaunderable to everything. Women could take advatage of anything they possibly could have ever wanted.
So to answer your quest if men are vaunerable when they are in love they answer is dependant on how in love that man is.
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Men r dorks ..they many a times playes with women emotions...some excepyions are there...
But breakups of men...
Ok i normally just read stuff and never comment but.. Apeksha!!!! please...
You girls go for the guys who seem strong (because they don't care) and nice (because they want something, sex or whatever) and then you hate all men after being played!!!
I was once in love... It was horrible, long story. After i was single for years and build an immunity to feelings, then started feeling lonely so i thought i will look for sex buddy on dating sites so im not lonely and i get sex ;) So i meet this girl, im over cute and funny (all purposefully to make her like me and get her into bed) we agree to have a casuall relationship so... sex + friendship and yes feelings but we still date other people etc. But then i open myself to a possibility that maybe not all girls are.. hmmm.. bad.. and i develope feelings to the point where i tell her its either proper relationship or nothing. She chooses nothing, she is a little sad but she doesn't really care i think... Im broken hearted! But i feel i've done the right thing. conclusion is that as soon as men let them selves be vulnerable they are not that hot for you anymore. u get what u wanted, u win the game, u move on.
Its all a game...
Cris A Level 2 Commenter 3 years ago
i think everybody is vulnerable specially after a breakup. and since misery loves company anybody who comes to them will not have a hard time cultivating a relationship. but that's just my opinion, of course :D